In doing research on mobile apps available for emotional development, I found this one (for Android). I haven’t purchased it, but just looking at some of the screenshots of the app make it clear that many people could benefit from this education.
If you feel manipulated, it’s probably true. If that feels uncomfortable to you, then understand that you can educate yourself to overcome those feelings.
It is not the other person’s responsibility to solve this problem for you. It is your responsibility to develop your emotional maturity.
Change is usually not as difficult as you might think, but it’s usually uncomfortable. This is primarily because you’ll be doing things that you’re not familiar with. The benefits you get from changing towards functional, healthy choices will far outweigh the discomfort.